Your wedding day is a celebration of your love story, a day for gathering all your most cherished family and friends to witness your commitment.
For so many couples, that circle of loved ones absolutely includes a furry, four-legged member with a wagging tail. Your dog has been there for movie nights on the couch, morning cuddles, and outdoor adventures.
They are a significant part of your life together, so it’s only natural to want to include them in your most important day.
The thought of having your best pup present as you say “I do” is heartwarming, but it also brings up a lot of questions. Is it practical? How do you manage it without adding stress? What are the best ways to make them a part of the celebration?
This guide is here to answer all those questions and provide you with a wealth of adorable and practical ideas.
We will show you exactly how to include your dog in your wedding in a way that is safe, memorable, and stress-free for everyone involved especially your pup.
From official roles in the ceremony to subtle, charming nods in your decor, let’s explore all the wonderful ways to honor your most loyal companion on your big day.
Table of Contents
The First Step: The Pup-Ticality Check
Before you order a tiny tuxedo or a floral collar, the very first step in figuring out how to include your dog in your wedding is to have an honest conversation about two key factors: your dog’s personality and your venue’s policies.
Is Your Dog a Wedding Guest Candidate?
You know your dog better than anyone. A successful inclusion depends entirely on their temperament. Be honest with yourself as you consider these questions:
- How do they handle crowds and new people? A wedding involves a lot of strangers, noise, and excitement. A dog that is naturally social, calm, and friendly will thrive. A dog that is anxious, fearful, or easily overwhelmed might find the experience stressful and terrifying.
- How is their obedience training? Can your dog reliably follow basic commands like “sit,” “stay,” and “come,” even with distractions? A well-behaved dog is crucial for a smooth event. If their training isn’t solid, it’s not a good idea to give them a starring role.
- Do they get along with children? Weddings often have young guests who may not know how to interact with a dog properly. Your dog must be patient and tolerant with children.
- How do they react to loud noises? Music, applause, and loud talking can be very startling for some dogs.
If your dog is anxious or reactive, forcing them into a wedding environment is not fair to them. Their well-being must come first. But don’t worry! There are still plenty of wonderful ways to honor them without having them physically present at the ceremony.
Venue and Vendor Verification
Once you’ve determined your dog is a good candidate, you must check with your venues and key vendors. Do not assume your furry friend is welcome.
- Ceremony and Reception Venues: Ask directly, “Are dogs permitted on the property?” Many venues, especially outdoor ones like farms, vineyards, and private estates, are pet-friendly. Indoor venues like hotels, restaurants, and historic buildings are often less accommodating due to health codes and policies. Get permission in writing.
- Photographer/Videographer: Let your photo and video teams know you plan to include your dog. They may have great ideas for shots and will be prepared for the joyful chaos a pet can bring.
- Florist: If you’re planning a floral collar or leash, your florist will need to know to use only non-toxic flowers. Common flowers like lilies, tulips, and daffodils are highly toxic to dogs.
Starring Roles: How Your Dog Can Be in the Wedding Ceremony
If your dog has the right temperament and your venue gives the green light, giving them an official role in the ceremony is one of the most memorable ways to include them.
The “Dog of Honor” or “Best Dog”
Your dog can stand proudly with your wedding party at the altar. This role is best for a calm, well-behaved dog who has a solid “stay” command. They can stand alongside the maid of honor or best man, adding an adorable and personal touch to your lineup.
The Flower Girl or Ring Bearer
This is perhaps the most popular and “aww”-inspiring role.
- As a Flower Girl: Instead of a basket of petals, your dog can wear a beautiful floral collar or have a small, securely attached basket of flowers. They can walk down the aisle ahead of the bride.
- As a Ring Bearer: Do not tie the real rings to your dog. It’s far too risky. Instead, you can attach ceremonial or fake rings to a special pillow or pouch that is securely fastened to their collar or a custom harness. The best man should hold the real rings.
Pro-Tip for the Aisle Walk: Don’t just send your dog down the aisle alone and hope for the best. Have a designated person they know and trust (like a groomsman, a bridesmaid, or a junior usher) walk them down the aisle on a leash. Have their favorite person (either the bride or groom) waiting for them at the end of the aisle with a treat to encourage them.
Escorting a Loved One
Your dog can walk down the aisle with a parent, a grandparent, or even you! Having your loyal companion walk you down the aisle is an incredibly touching and modern twist on a classic tradition. It beautifully symbolizes the journey you’ve all taken together.
The Support System: Ensuring a Paws-itive Day
You and your wedding party will be busy. You cannot be the primary handler for your dog on your own wedding day. To ensure a stress-free experience for everyone, you need a support system in place.
Hire a Designated Dog Sitter or Handler
This is the single best investment you can make if your dog is attending the wedding. There are professional wedding pet attendants whose entire job is to care for your dog on the big day. They will:
- Bring your dog to the venue at the designated time.
- Keep them entertained and calm before their big moment.
- Help them perform their duties during the ceremony.
- Take them for potty breaks and ensure they have water.
- Transport them home or to a boarding facility after their part is over, allowing you to enjoy your reception worry-free.
Appoint a Trusted Friend or Family Member
If a professional service isn’t in the budget, you can ask a responsible, dog-loving friend or family member who is not in the immediate wedding party to be the designated handler.
This should be someone your dog knows well and is comfortable with. Make sure they understand their role and are happy to do it you don’t want them to miss out on enjoying your wedding because they are on full-time dog duty.
Dressed to Impress: Wedding Attire for Your Pup
Dressing up your dog is a fun way to make them look the part. The key is to prioritize their comfort and safety.
- Floral Wreaths or Collars: A beautiful arrangement of non-toxic flowers around your dog’s neck is an elegant and classic choice. Work with your florist to create a piece that is secure but not too heavy.
- Bow Ties and Bandanas: A simple, handsome bow tie attached to their collar or a custom bandana with your wedding date or a cute phrase like “My Humans Are Getting Married” is a simple and comfortable option.
- Decorative Leashes: Instead of their everyday leash, use a special one for the ceremony. You can wrap it in ribbon, greenery, or flowers to match your wedding’s theme.
- Tuxedos and Dresses: While adorable for a quick photo, full outfits can be restrictive and hot for a dog. If you choose to use one, ensure it fits well, doesn’t impede their movement, and is only worn for a short period of time.
Safety Note: Never use anything that could be a choking hazard or that your dog finds uncomfortable. Do a “dress rehearsal” before the wedding day to make sure they are happy and comfortable in their special attire.
Picture Perfect: Including Your Dog in Wedding Photos
Wedding photos are cherished forever, and including your dog makes them even more personal and special.
- Getting Ready Photos: Having your dog with you while you’re getting ready can lead to some beautiful, relaxed, and intimate photos. A shot of your pup lounging on the bed as you get your makeup done or “helping” the groomsmen with their ties is always a winner.
- The “First Look”: If you’re doing a first look with your partner, why not include your dog? Capturing the reaction of both your partner and your pup seeing you in your wedding attire for the first time is pure magic.
- Formal Portraits: Dedicate a specific, short amount of time for formal portraits with your dog. Your pet handler can bring the dog over for a 15-minute window to get photos with you, the wedding party, and family. This keeps the dog from getting bored and restless.
When They Can’t Be There: Adorable Ideas to Honor Your Dog
Sometimes, it’s just not possible for your dog to be physically present at the wedding. Whether it’s due to venue restrictions, your dog’s anxiety, or travel logistics, you can still include them in many creative and meaningful ways.
- In Your Stationery: Feature a custom illustration of your dog on your save-the-dates, invitations, or RSVP cards. A cute drawing of your pup saying “My humans are getting married!” is a charming touch.
- Signature Cocktails: Name a signature cocktail after your dog! A spicy margarita called “The Archie” or a sweet mojito named “The Daisy” is a fun, personal detail that guests will love. You can have a custom bar sign with a watercolor portrait of your pet next to the drink description.
- Cake Toppers and Decor:
- Cake Topper: Get a custom cake topper made that includes a small figurine of your dog sitting alongside you and your partner.
- Cocktail Napkins: Custom cocktail napkins with a fun fact about your dog or a cute illustration are always a hit.
- Table Numbers: Name your tables after things your dog loves—”The Tennis Ball Table,” “The Dog Park Table,” “The Squeaky Toy Table.”
- Wedding Favors in Their Honor: Instead of a traditional favor, make a donation to a local animal shelter or rescue organization in your guests’ names. Place a small card at each table setting explaining that a donation has been made in honor of your beloved pet.
A Day to Remember with Your Best Friend
Your wedding is a reflection of your life and your love, and including your dog is a beautiful way to make the day even more personal.
Whether they are walking you down the aisle or are there in spirit through your creative decor, their presence will add a layer of warmth and joy that you and your guests will never forget.
The key to successfully figuring out how to include your dog in your wedding is thoughtful planning.
By considering your dog’s personality, confirming logistics with your venue, and appointing a designated handler, you can create a seamless, happy, and safe experience for everyone.
This day marks the beginning of your new family, and by finding the perfect way to honor your loyal canine companion, you are celebrating every member of it.
